ulto:

butches

  • are gay women
  • arent men
  • dont have the male gaze
  • dont have male privilege

femmes

  • are gay women
  • arent straight
  • arent ‘straight passing’ 
  • dont have straight privilege

the point of both of these identities is that we are all lesbians living our lives free of needing men so why is it so often that we accuse the other of serving heterosexual patriarchal systems

  • deactivate mad about it

blackjosuke:

edgar-allen-pho:

snakegay:

pepperclemens:

snakegay:

“a no-sex bar sounds like a superb idea” do you think people just fuck in bars.  like you go into a bar theres just a fucking wild orgy happening on the tables and like one guy on the side drinking 

Perhaps its meant in the asexual way, like, make friends or something?

go to a coffee shop??? join a club????? leave the house??????? 

nah okay, fuck that you’ve clearly never experienced a night where you’re walking around a downtown core like “where is everybody????” and then get to a club and it is PACKED and you realize this is it. this is where everyone goes, this is where everybody is.

and you walk around and get a drink and realize All of the people are here to have sex. you can see it in their eyes. they are there to have sex, or there because their friends are having sex, or because they want to look like they’re someone who has sex. everyone is at the club, and everyone is there for sex, and if you’re not about that you have a lot of work to do if you’re going to be part of any social group.

then again people on this site are absolutely in love with interpreting everything with the express purpose of mocking it, so yeah get your bits in.

we need asexual grocery stores too last week i went to walmart and a lady was putting a king size snickers bar up her pussy

bogleech:

willofasherah:

war-lesbian:

war-lesbian:

probably the weirdest information about star wars i could give you is that the death star garbage compactor monster from episode 4 was sentient, was force sensitive, and it wasn’t trying to eat luke – it was trying to baptise him

her name was Omi, she was a lesbian, and she chose her own gender

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“When her vision was fulfilled, and the Death Star was destroyed, she pondered what she would be in the next life.”

Rey is Omi

This is according to the short story “The Baptist” in the anthology “From a Certain Point of View,” it’s in the current canon and the short story was written by lesser known sci-fi fantasy author Nnedi Okorafor who seems pretty great.

Anyway it’s 100% in line with the weirdness of the previous expanded universe. Tales From Jabba’s Palace and Tales From the Cantina were two of my favorite books as a kid and they made the most random minor aliens into force sensitive heroes and heroines too.

Star Wars is doing great

sireniae:

squidong:

lesbiandaydream:

me, a femme, tacking a rose and a sports bar gift card onto a fishing line and casting it out into a lesbian bar: find me a butch girlfriend

me, a butch, tacking a rose and a sephora gift card onto a fishing line and casting it out into a lesbian bar: find me a femme girlfriend

Me, a femme, hanging out at the lesbian bar with my butch gf, frantically tangling your fishing hooks together so when you try to reel them in its like the spaghetti scene in lady and the tramp: find eachother you sweet, beautiful, useless lesbians