“It’s a common misconception that members of gay relationships have to map onto the roles of a straight couple: woman and asshole,” said Acharya. “But neither of us is the asshole; that’s the entire point.”
Ryser had a number of follow-up questions to this explanation.
“So, if neither of you is the asshole,” said Ryser, “then who plays devil’s advocate when you’re having sensitive political conversations? Who takes the other person’s side when you describe a microaggression? And who gets furious when you’re driving and one of you has to pee?”
Demonstrating immense patience, Acharya tried once more to help Ryser understand.
“None of those things are necessary for a relationship,” said Acharya. “In fact, they’re all bad. People in straight relationships should not do those things either.”
u know what happens when u so-called “sex positive” goons coddle n defend straight women who use gay women as their boyfriends sex objects? the more we get raped n assaulted. the more our love for women is reduced to nothing but a male fantasy. the more our lives are put in danger. u wanna go and preach about how we’re slut shaming n policing women’s bodies for defending ourselves against fetishization be my guest. but let it be known ur little dumbass “sex positivity” is putting women’s lives at risk. which for folks who seem to care “so” much about women id expect some sympathy but alas y’all just care about ur lil kinks and not actually being decent ppl
str8 ppl always ask me how wlw couples figure out who should be the one to propose. they always seem to ask this under the assumption that both women would prefer to be on the receiving end of the marriage proposal and would feel like they’re sacrificing a certain experience by being the one to pop the question. from what I’ve seen a way more pressing question is how do wlw avoid accidentally proposing to each other at the same time.
Wlw: *accidentally plan proposals at the same time because they’re so in love and mutually excited to be together*
Str8ies: incomprehensible, where’s my gender roles????
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