anyway fuck the split attraction model for making sexuality about who you fuck. yall really sent us back 20yrs huh
Tag: rb’d
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Yeah hello OP quick question; what the shit does being an author of erotic stories have anything to do with being LGBT? Seriously, I don’t get the point you’re trying to make here.
Many people who live in the southern region of Vancouver Island may have heard of the Victoria Lesbian Seniors Care Society, an organization based out of Victoria BC in Canada:
VLSCS has been active in the Greater Victoria since 1996. Initially, the primary goal of the organization was to offer support to lesbians in the region as they aged, but as since evolved into an organization that advocates for lesbians from all walks of life, and offers opportunities for the local community to get together (such as offering lesbian dances and coffee houses!).
However, the VLSCS is at risk of being disbanded due to there not being enough people running for the board. The board needs to have at least five members, and only one person has decided to run for a board position. If four more people don’t express interest, VLSCS will be disbanded after 22 years of serving the lesbian community on southern Vancouver Island.
If the VLSCS is disbanded, the community here will lose so many resources, including:
- Movie and Social Nights 2-3 times per month;
- Coffee Talks where newcomers often introduce themselves to the community;
- Christmas brunches;
- Lesbian dances (which they had hoped to make this a regular feature starting this fall);
- Craft fairs or solstice parties;
- Potlucks;
- Concerts like this year’s Our Voices;
- Health Fund for members, often elderly or disabled, having difficulty to cover their out-of-pocket medical expenses;
- Advocacy for lesbian seniors in care (they were just invited to the Southern Vancouver Island and Southern Gulf Islands Seniors Planning Table, which aims to motivate the government to advocate for what seniors really need, and there are concerns that the LBGTQ2 groups are not being represented);
This organization has done do much for my local community, and my heart is breaking due to its potential disbandment.
If you’re a lesbian living in the southern region of Vancouver Island, please consider volunteering with VLSCS, and potentially running for a board position.
There memberships are currently 50% off, but financially disadvantaged lesbians can join for free by emailing hello@amazingwomen.ca with the subject heading “I AM AN AMAZING WOMAN” and explaining why you would like a membership. Any lesbian who lives in British Columbia can become a member.
There is a meeting on Friday, November 9th in downtown Victoria to discuss the current issues faced by the lack of leadership. For any local lesbians interested in attending, further information, times, and locations can be found on their website.
If you’re not local but would still like to help, please reblog this post to spread the word. Any boosting or support helps.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. If you support helping lesbians to live their lives happily and free from discrimination and poverty, please consider heling us keep this organization alive.
Destroy the idea that butches are violent, mean, bad, evil, or ugly.

A 17-year old Frida Kahlo poses for a family photo wearing a traditional gentleman’s 3-piece suit, 1924.
Or how I wanted to go back in time to 1924 so bisexual leftist icon Frida Kahlo could raw me
Tove Jansson and her cat, Psipsina (Greek for pussycat). Psipsina lived to be 16 years old.
romanticizing mental illness is dangerous and misleading
Artsy depression: haunted eyes, good at art, emo hair and eyeliner on point
Actual Depression: bloodshot eyes, no longer trust themselves with pencils, has not showered in five days
Quirky OCD: organized books, clean room, color coordinated outfits
Actual OCD: Intrusive thoughts, flipping the light switch 8 times so you don’t stab your brother, picking holes in your skin
Cute eating disorders: Slim trim and beautiful, shyly refusing a second helping, dancer aesthetic
Actual eating disorders: Puffy cheeks and eroded teeth from excessive vomiting, hair growing over your freezing body and refusing to eat carrots because they’re too high in carbs
Adorable anxiety: just a smol bean, soft, must be protected from the world
Actual anxiety: crying so hard you throw up, shaking, losing sleep over a period after the “okay”
RPG PTSD: flashbacks, vietnam, u don’t know what i’ve been through kiddo
Actual PTSD: Buying your first pregnancy test at twelve, flinching at high fives, i can’t feel my hands where am I what year is it
Cartoon ADHD: look a squirrel, something shiny, fidgety loveable bufoon
Actual ADHD: rereading the same page over and over because it doesn’t make sense, hasn’t done the laundry in four months, hyperfocusing on a mushroom knowing you have work to do
stop making terrifying realities seem cute. it’s disrespectful for those of us who are actually struggling
to every “openminded” christian who thinks youre not homophobic because you “love everyone regardless of sin”… please know you still make all the lgbt people around you want to die and if given the opportunity to cut ties with you they will … if that sounds mean to you then maybe work on not seeing your “loved ones” as sinners for just being who they are and start lovingly embracing their differences instead of barely, bitterly tolerating them
p.s. it’s a widely known “secret” that people who “love everyone regardless of sin” try to “discourage” that “sin” by being passive aggressively abusive and voting for homophobic politicians and policies which make life physically and psychologically dangerous for lgbt people
any relationship that could be “ruined” by having a conversation about feelings, standards, or expectations wasn’t really firm enough anyway, so there isn’t much to ruin














