If you only flirt with butch women, women of color, and trans women by making demands of them like, punch me in the face, step on me, crush my head, like the violence of those demands have been discussed better by other people, but I have yet to hear someone talk about the entitlement that goes into those demands. If you flirt with some women by being like “oh you’re so beautiful” or “wow you’re cute” but you flirt with some other women by telling them to do things, perhaps you need to examine why you see these women as people you have the right to make demands over.
u know what happens when u so-called “sex positive” goons coddle n defend straight women who use gay women as their boyfriends sex objects? the more we get raped n assaulted. the more our love for women is reduced to nothing but a male fantasy. the more our lives are put in danger. u wanna go and preach about how we’re slut shaming n policing women’s bodies for defending ourselves against fetishization be my guest. but let it be known ur little dumbass “sex positivity” is putting women’s lives at risk. which for folks who seem to care “so” much about women id expect some sympathy but alas y’all just care about ur lil kinks and not actually being decent ppl
you know what? i’m gonna say it! i am legitimately so sick of the way tumblr and twitter and other social media platforms has romancitized homophobia in the form of toxic, harmful stereotypes. sheith, an incestuous ship with a 7 year age gap, is always number 2-3 on the fandometrics. cmybn and its underage borderline pedophilic ship got more attention and more of a fan base than moonlight, a movie with black lgbt rep everyone just…ignored. hell even killing fucking stalking, centered around an abusive relationship meant to seemingly shed light on domestic violence and the grossness of serial killers has a fucking fan base and APOLOGISTS. i am So tired of the way we have desensitized ourselves from how fandom wields such an iron fist with mlm whilst simultaneously being overrun by fujoshi straight girls. i am tired of being a gay man and being called a fujoshi because i hate the toxicity that are these ships and indulge in mlm content because it comforts me. older gay men are not predators. you only care about us when you want your buff old gay to fuck the underage twink and god forbid we get mad about the way homophobia has been demoralized. do fucking better straight women.
like not to be a wuhluhwuh but when are we gonna stop infighting and turn our attention against the common enemy uniting us, which is men who say things like “can I watch?”
people really, really need to stop putting the word ‘yuri’ on lists of “bad and socially harmful words you shouldn’t use” alongside yaoi. as if the emtymology or connotations of those words is in any way similar
I’ve seen people say that ‘yuri is problematic, you should say shoujo-ai instead’ and i’m begging you to please, please reconsider your position there
please
yaoi: coined by doujinshi circles populated by fujoshis and refers exclusively to pornographic content. literally means “no point, no meaning”
yuri: coined by the lgbt community in Japan. refers to any kind of romantic or sexual intimacy between women, explicit or not. literally means “lily”
Honestly, the most frustrating thing about the whole rcdart discourse is that I remember their art from circa 2015 and it was really good. They still had a distinct and recognizable art style, but still balanced their stylization so that it wasn’t overly exaggerated or grossly offensive. And it’s just gone downhill so much.
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